Monday, December 19, 2011

The ‘S’ word.

The world literally revolves around sex; yet most of us feel unease talking about the subject even to our partners. So why has sex become such a taboo subject?
We are ashamed of it: growing up our parents, society and church teach us that this subject is not to be discussed; they teach us the ugly and consequential side of having sex before we are married. Everything associated with sex has to do with Satan as it is dirty and immoral, right? Wrong. God actually created sex but people seem to forget that.
Moving on, people lack education on the matter. Most parents will not talk about this with their children as they believe their little angels will never think of such things until they are married, but in reality most people have sex before marriage and the amount of dirty things that go through kid’s minds…. Shocking :o
So let’s talk.
1. As cruel as this may sound, your first time is not likely to be magical and amazing like we all wish it to be. The more experience you gain, the better your sex life will become as you find out things you like and things you don’t. Don’t be shy to talk to your partner about it, they can’t read minds!
2. Don’t force yourself into having sex at a young age; chances are you’re going to regret it. You may think you’re in love with the person but it may just be infatuation.
3. Don’t have unprotected sex because you will get pregnant and die… not really but just don’t do it; you can get an STD as well as get pregnant.

Final summation… don’t be scared of the topic, the more you know the better it gets. No one can tell you if you’re right or wrong so narrow minded people are to be avoided under any circumstance.

1 comment:

  1. I agree with all this, but I would add something:

    As a student at university, almost 20 years old, not too ugly (which made me able to get experience with girls), I can say that some people have sex, but others make love, that's the whole difference. Having sex is good, making Love -with a capital letter, is better. It doesn't mean it has to be romantic or boring, you'll reach the orgasm as well (well it does depend on your partner's skills) but it will be more than just a physical thing.
    Some people won't see the difference, don't worry it's normal, experience will show you the difference.

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